My fiance and I broke up December 21st. Up until a month prior we had an amazing relationship. He was caring and kind and we had great communication. It was difficult because we lived an hour away from each other but we made it work. I am 45 and he is 52. We planned our wedding for June and I was going to move out there when my daughter graduated from high school. Her dad also lives in the same town. I will admit that things were getting stressful for me, I have alot on my plate with leaving my job(I’m training my replacement), selling my house, moving, my daughter graduating (we are very close), etc etc. We broke up because I had an incident with my daughter and her father and my fiance said he couldn’t deal with outside drama of ex’s etc etc. He has no children and no contact with his ex. He emailed me on Christmas and we thought we could work it out but I think I pushed him too hard and he decided he couldn’t do it. So I have left him alone, sent his Christmas presents, keys and garage door opener. I told him I would return the ring even though he told me to keep it. I have not seen him since but have had a couple emails back and forth. Just how are you and such. I don’t know if I should just give him the space he needs and let it go. I don’t want to force him to be with me but I do know he loves me. I am still moving to his town next year as the job opportunities and community is amazing. I was planning on leaving my small town when my daughter graduated anyway so that is not because of him. Any advice would be appreciated as I’m thinking I should just give him space. He has had a very tough life and doesn’t have any family and really no friends except for a couple co workers but is really a loner.
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